Monday, December 13, 2010

Married Women

I am not always one to judge, and I guess it doesn't matter what people do in their lives. But one thing you shouldn't forget about is if it you are a married women. Personally, I believed that if you are a married women, you should stop trying to act single. There's nothing cool about that. That's just opening doors for cheating on husbands and ruining relationships. Awhile back, I knew this married women who had two kids, but all she does everyday is flirt around as if she is single.  Of course, she's a beautiful women, but if she wanted to be single, she shouldn't had gotten married in the first place. Marriage is a dedication between two people. You just don't abandon your kids someday just because you're bored. She took me to her house one time and all she did was complained about her life, she got an eight year old and a five year old waiting for her to come home to feed them. Her husband's working full time job and she's not happy because she goes to college school time.

You see, getting married at a young age, does have their disadvantages. Young women tends to get divorce early.  This women that I met show me life about women who could be just as irresponsible as men. She had no respect and complained about every little thing. My rules are respect those who respect you, or treat someone the way you want to be treated. She might not had respect for herself in the first place, otherwise I wouldn't even see it coming as I blogged about this. I might had brought this woman up for no good reason, but that's because she was trying to correct my life. There is one thing I would like to say to her or anyone like her, please learn a valuable lesson, you can use many excuses to get away from your problem, but if you can't solve your own, don't go around trying to solve others.